get to

reach a goal, e.g., "make the first team"

• “We made it!”
• “She may not make the grade”

arrive at the point of

• “She gets to fretting if I stay away form home too long”

cause annoyance in; disturb, especially by minor irritations

• “Mosquitoes buzzing in my ear really bothers me”
• “It irritates me that she never closes the door after she leaves”